Hey my loves,
Lately something has been playing on my mind. I thought it would make a perfect blog post to share with you guys because it is real and it happens all the time. That being falling out of friendship with someone. It happens all the time and it can be so upsetting when someone you’ve know for so long and have grown with no longer wants to be your friend or you’ve just drifted your own ways.
It’s perfectly normal to fall out of friendship, I know it’s not nice and it isn’t something we ideally want to do. but it does happen. I’ve been there and I’m writing this based on my own personal happenings.
Lately I’ve had a few friendships where things are just fizzling out. I’ve been feeling really bad about it and wondering whether it’s my fault. It’s hard. It genuinely is. When you’ve been through so much with someone and all of a sudden you’re living life without them. Either because it was a toxic friendship or you just have nothing in common anymore.
Toxic friendships are no good for you or your friend. If someone is bad for you then do what’s right for you. In fact in any situation just do what’s right for you. You’re happiness and well being is so important. It’s also important that your friend is doing what’s right for them to. So don’t be too upset if they no longer want to be as close. They aren’t always wanting to potentially hurt you. They’re just wanting to be happy and it can be sad when you’re not part of that. It really can.
It’s always better to end friendships on a good term. Don’t go all guns blazing and say things you don’t mean. It can obviously affect your future friendship with them. Because that can happen, I’ve fallen out with friends in the past and now a few years later we are close again. Sometimes all you need is a breather.
Hopefully you found this helpful.